Elaine & Trevor

May 30–June 1, 2025 • Varenna, Province of Lecco, Italy
77 Days To Go!

Elaine & Trevor

May 30–June 1, 2025 • Varenna, Province of Lecco, Italy
77 Days To Go!

Wedding Party

Meet Our Wedding Party

We couldn’t imagine this day without our closest friends and family who have been by our side through thick and thin.


From unforgettable memories to endless support, these amazing people have been with us through it all. Get to know the wonderful crew who will be celebrating with us!

Julia Lamb
Julia Lamb - Co-Maid of Honor
Julia and Elaine have been friends since middle school, where they bonded over their mutual love for fashion, books, and cafeteria cookies. Since then they have stayed “long-distance” best friends, flying to visit each other in the many cities they’ve lived in since graduation. A few of Julia’s favourite memories with Elaine are their high school grad trip to Mexico, spending summers together in Victoria, flying to Sam Smith’s concert, and surviving a torrential rainstorm in Maui. Elaine isn’t just a friend to Julia- she’s family. Julia was so happy to finally meet Trevor in person at their engagement and see how perfect they are for each other. She can’t wait to stand by Elaine’s side on her wedding day and celebrate their love!
Hannah Koschmeder
Hannah Koschmeder - Co-Maid of Honor
Hannah and Elaine met in their freshman year dorm in college while pursuing the same major. They grew closer over class projects and study sessions, supporting and learning from each other, going on fitness kicks, and getting Sichuan food. Eventually they went on to co-found a Women In Business club together. After one of the first club meetings, Elaine introduced Hannah to Trevor and she grilled him as any protective friend would! Luckily, Trevor was unphased and handled it well. Hannah now resides in San Francisco, near the happy couple, and enjoys seeing them often for trips to nature and Napa.
Charlie Grube
Charlie Grube - Best Man
As Trevor’s younger brother and best man, Charlie and Trevor have been inseparable since childhood—constantly competing, pushing each other (sometimes a little too much), and sharing everything from bedrooms, their love of running, career paths, and even wardrobes (though Trevor wasn’t always thrilled about that). Their friendly rivalry has shaped them both, bringing out the best in each other. Trevor was never one to introduce many significant others, so when he finally did, it was clear something was different. After meeting Elaine, who not only endured the chaos of Trevor’s fraternity house but also survived the house he later lived in, it was obvious she was someone special. Elaine is one of the most genuine and kind people Charlie has ever met, and he couldn’t be happier to officially welcome her into the family. Here’s to a lifetime of adventures for Trevor and Elaine—and hopefully a move back to the East Coast soon!
Carlos Hurtado
Carlos Hurtado - Groomsman
Carlos and Trevor first met as fraternity brothers at CMU, with Trevor joining two years after Carlos. Despite the age difference, the two quickly bonded over their shared love of sushi fuku, sauces (especially spicy mayo), concerts and lifting forming a tight friendship that lasted well beyond their college days. As Carlos built his career in finance, he was always happy to lend an ear and offer perspective as Trevor contemplated his own professional future. Whether they were swapping stories over late-night study sessions or catching up over drinks, the two friends remained a constant source of support for each other through the years. Carlos will always see Trevor as a little brother - one whose drive and determination he deeply admires, and whose friendship he will always treasure. He couldn't be happier to stand by Trevor's side as he marries the love of his life and celebrates this next chapter.
Rachel Wong
Rachel Wong - Bridesmaid
Rachel and Elaine first met in college through their sorority, bonding over a shared love for food—especially hot pot. They quickly became inseparable, spending weekends exploring new restaurants in Pittsburgh or ordering takeout for cozy movie nights in (Zootopia!). After years of bi-coastal adventures, Rachel's dream came true in 2022 when Elaine Facetimed her with the exciting news that she and Trevor were moving to San Francisco. Rachel can’t wait to celebrate their love in Italy!
Kiki Cekota
Kiki Cekota - Bridesmaid
Kiki and Elaine met in first grade and bonded over reading books at lunchtime - and now they’ve been friends for over 20 years! Although they live a country apart, Kiki stays close with Elaine through an endless stream of history and corporate life memes. When Kiki first met Trevor while visiting CMU, she knew he was a perfect fit for Elaine. One of her favourite memories with the couple is dinner and debating in NYC when Kiki visited them there in 2021. Kiki is excited to be in Italy celebrating the couple and making everyone’s acquaintance!
Robert Foley
Robert Foley - Groomsman
Rob and Trevor have known each other since the Groveland Elementary school days and have been great friends ever since. From neighborhood hangouts to taking the same high school AP classes, they’ve shared many memories throughout their childhood. As adults they’ve stayed connected through visits on the east and west coast along with playing the latest new video games together (even if they are well past their prime). We couldn’t be happier to have Rob alongside us for our special day!
Kevin Liu
Kevin Liu - Groomsman
Trevor and Kevin first met in high school in Pennsylvania, but their friendship didn’t fully develop until college. Once there, they became extremely close—whether through pledging the same fraternity, sharing the same major, or eventually following the same career path. Elaine entered the picture in a unique way, as they all met in the same class. From the start, Trevor and Elaine were inseparable, bringing out the best in each other. It has been incredible to witness their love story from the beginning, and Kevin is excited to see what the future holds for them.
Asher Blackburn
Asher Blackburn - Groomsman
Asher and Trevor met as freshmen in college and quickly became fraternity brothers. After living together for three years, their friendship grew, fueled by a shared passion for endurance sports. Asher still takes credit for convincing Trevor to run his first marathon. When he’s not breaking it down on the dance floor, cracking jokes, or advocating for everyone to run an ultramarathon, there’s a good chance he’s due for another drink.
Evan Lehner
Evan Lehner - Groomsman
Evan has known Trevor since their freshman year at Carnegie Mellon. Despite their differences as fans of the Philadelphia Eagles and New York Giants, Trevor and Evan lived together for three years while in Pittsburgh. They share a common love of sports, traveling with friends, and running. In 2022, they even ran the Philadelphia Marathon together, along with Asher and Trevor's Dad!
Richa Ravi
Richa Ravi - Bridesmaid
Richa and Elaine met in college and continued to join the same sorority and live together. When Elaine and Trevor first started seeing each-other, Richa was initially protective of Elaine, but quickly saw that Trevor was quite literally the sweetest guy she could wish for Elaine. Richa got to spend more time with Elaine and Trevor in New York; whether it was them consoling her while she cried in their bathroom about some guy, going out together, or surviving lockdown, their time in the city was unforgettable. Elaine visited Richa in London last year, and they continue to make new memories halfway across the world.
Jill Grube
Jill Grube - Bridesmaid
Jill is Trevor’s younger sister and has always looked up to him for his kindness, sense of humor, and unwavering support – whether it was cheering her on at races or sharing memorable family adventures. One of her favorite memories with Trevor and Elaine is their trip to Napa Valley, where they enjoyed wine tasting as a family. Jill and Elaine share a special bond over their love for shopping, great books, and, of course, already being sisters through Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority. She’s beyond excited to officially welcome Elaine into the family and celebrate this special day!
Kyle Kauffman
Kyle Kauffman - Groomsman
Kyle and Trev first met way back in 2009 during their time in Mrs. Masciantonio’s class. They instantly hit it off—making jokes, laughing under their breath in class, and inevitably getting their seats moved because of each other. As they grew, their core group of friends from Potters and Geddes continued to bond into a brotherhood. When Trev first told them about Elaine, they were all eager to meet her. She far surpassed every expectation they had. It was clear that Trev was crazy about her, and that was all they could have hoped for. Everyone is excited to see what life has in store for the two of them! P.S. Trev, whenever you read this, Kyle wants a rematch on split-screen CoD in his childhood room.
Justin DiNardo
Justin DiNardo - Groomsman
Justin is one of Trevor’s oldest friends, having met him in daycare at just two years old. They grew up together, attending elementary, middle, and high school side by side. Living in the same neighborhood, they were part of a close-knit group that spent their afternoons playing sports, video games, and joking around—doing just about everything together. When Trevor introduced Elaine, it was immediately clear that they were a perfect match. Justin, along with everyone else, is excited to see Trevor and Elaine continue to grow together and build their life as a couple. Hopefully, a move back to Pennsylvania to be closer to him is in their future!
DongGyu Oh
DongGyu Oh - Master of Ceremonies
DongGyu is Elaine’s cousin, sharing good memories when we were both kids. Especially when he visited Elaine in Canada back in 2004, and having Korean BBQ with Trevor in 2023. He loves traveling around the world and trying new things, from bungee jumping to riding a motorcycle with the locals in Vietnam. He’s excited to make new friends so be sure to say hello!